Hard up newlywed

1) I am married almost a year but just am not happy sexually 1 time a month or every 2 or 3 just can't cut it for me
2) I have planned was going to but ultimately never will cheat on my wife even tho 6 months prior to the wedding she cheated on me with a guy not sex tho other sexual things and 4 months prior with a woman she says the guy made her do it tho I don't know what to belive
3) I like guys (I'm a guy) I just think it would be cool to try
4) 2 happy ones.... I'm alive tho I shouldn't be and I came a long way in life
5) I am content with me my self and how I matured over the years....